OWNING/MAINTAINING YOUR VOICE IN RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

Earlier on I had talked about the importance of owning one’s voice in a relationship. You can watch the video here.

Today’s post is about how to maintain your voice.

Every human wants to be heard. We all want to be seen as valuable, that we matter in the scheme of things, that we are important. On the other hand, since the world does not revolve around you, you can’t always have your way or get the final say in your relationship. So how does one then strike that balance between maintaining your voice and allowing your partner own theirs too? Here are a few things to consider trying.

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THE POWER OF ‘TOGETHER’

There is this popular saying that: ‘Out of sight is out of mind’. This is arguably true.

Anyone that whas ever been in a relationship would agree that it’s only a matter of time before you start forgetting about someone. It’s only a matter of time before the old memories begin to fade, it’s only a matter of time before everything starts falling apart all because in some way or the other there has been a disconnect.

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3 WORDS NOT TO USE IN A DISAGREEMENT WITH YOUR PARTNER.

Whether you are married or in a relationship, that time would come when you’d find yourself in some form of disagreement with your partner. You can’t escape it. I mean, even if you both came from the same geographical location, with similar experiences, perception would still differ. Like, even twins disagree. Heck! You even have some disagreements within yourself from time to time. So, like I said, with your partner, it is bound to happen.

So what are those words you can say that’ll ‘fuel’ the already burning ‘fire. Or what’s not to say to at least not aggravate the situation.

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